You may not really know that these little things will infuriate him but it actually does, so many marriages never enjoy any form of peace no thanks to issues like this. You need to know the kind of man you got married to, know his likes and dislikes, apologize if need be to quell unnecessary tension, you guys will be better for it
Here are 5 little things you obviously taking for granted but which continue to get your husband mad
TAKING SIDE UNNECESSARILY
Most especially when kids are involved, nothing will annoy your husband the more than you taking side with the kids when he tried cautioning them, you are simply courting trouble. So many men have complained to me how their wives take sides with the kids when trying to put them aright, they are obviously not happy with such development, some even threatened to initiate a divorce if the act continues. I tried as much as possible to counsel them on steps to take, made them understand that it hasn’t gotten to the issue of divorce, that a little understanding on both sides will make things work out fine
Common to most women, let me not say all, even though the ones not doing will still have some little elements of it. You might see it as nothing or being too little to worry him but the truth is it can be so annoying. Try as much as possible to talk to him in a friendly tone and not use the fighting tone, am sure he would listen and possibly make amends where necessary
Just days back, a friend complained about how his woman enjoyed bringing up her complaints whenever he was busy watching football matches and listening to News, he didn’t like it at all. Am sure in the mind of his wife, let me use this little opportunity to disturb him, he may listen to me. Madam, please forward your complaints through the right channels, not this way
You may not know this but it’s actually getting your husband mad, he usually felt like saying it but don’t just know-how. Some women enjoy staying away from home, most without a valid reason to do so. Some feel since their men aren’t saying anything, it’s actually right to leave home at the slightest opportunity, this is part of the little things some husbands will never condone. Some housewives wouldn’t mind spending the whole day at a neighbor’s apartment, giving little attention to their husbands. I see nothing wrong in being a full housewife if the agreement is between you too, but don’t abuse it
This might sound crazy but it’s actually happening in its own space, it depends on the parties involved and how they’ve been coping. Do you know some men usually get annoyed if you use their things without consent? Just as i stressed earlier, you need to know the kind of man you married so as to avoid friction, your marriage will go well if you work hand in hand and respect each other’s space.