A fine glass vase goes from treasure to trash, the moment it is broken. Fortunately, something else happens to Mohammed Babangida and Aisha Umma Wali. He Picks up her pieces, she helps him to gather his and here they are. Reluctant departure can best be described as the separation between Mohammed Babangida and Aisha Umma Wali as the couple finds it difficult to let go the wonderful feelings they share for each other and the promises made from the beginning of the time.
Aisha has to leave not because she can’t stay with Muhammed any longer, but she can’t see her love in a state of agony without doing something to help. All she can think of then was to leave the love of her life in the hand of another woman when someone loves you; the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable, throughout their period of a trial she never says any negative thing about her husband and she (Aisha) turns her wounds into wisdom. Facing the fertility rumor is like coming to the end of the road between her and her husband if her body cannot even support her, then where does she expect to get support from. She came to the truth that, unless she let go, unless she forgives herself unless she forgives the situation unless she comes to realize that the situation is over, she cannot move forward and this she embraced. She has no doubt about the love of her husband and holds on to the old saying, that if you love something, you let go, if it’s yours it will come back to you or else, it was never yours.
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage; this is what Muhammed needs to weather the storm. The love of Aisha makes him strong and determine that whatever the page turns out to be, their chapter will not end there. He kept it to himself and work toward achieving it. When we’re incomplete, we’re always searching for somebody to complete us. Muhammed went on searching for the remaining half of him. After the separation, there is a lot to be accomplished and Muhammed determines to accomplish the series with his love beside him. Not without Aisha. It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being. He saw himself in her. It wasn’t surprising when she eventually gave Muhammed to Muhammed.
The rumour was laid to rest as God The Almighty bless their love with a seed. And establish Aisha in the household of Muhammed Babangiga. The mother and child(Son- Alha’ Amin) are in Califonia, United States where the baby was born. Until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfilment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter. Muhammed and Aisha’s story is a big lesson to those that believe in true love. Well, it seems to me that the best relationships is not the ones that last but the ones that are rooted in friendship. When I despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love have always won. There have been tyrants and murderers, and for a time, they can seem invincible, but in the end, they always fall.
Credit: Keem Abdul